Let me be honest here: You could be a boy. There's nothing stopping you.

Is that really what you want?

If you’re at this point, and if your wish is sincere, it’s because there’s some part of you that really wants to live as a man. And that’s totally okay. You can be a man if you want to, and we’ll help you get there.

Nothing's permanent about this decision.

If you decide you don't like it, you can always choose to stop being a boy. There is always a path back. Nobody but you can permanently change your gender, and nobody can trick you into wanting to be a boy if you didn't before. All we can do is help you reconnect with your own existing desire. No matter how you found this site, this is your decision. Nobody else should make it but you.

You can always come back later if you’re not ready yet. You are 100% valid no matter what you choose.

If you’re ready, go make some tea, sit down in a quiet calm place, and give yourself as much time as you need.

I want to be a boy!

No, wait! This isn’t for me!

If you're not sure, consider the following questions:

• Does imagining yourself as a man help you relate to other men?
• Do you wish your friends would see you and treat you as a man?
• Do you wish you could wear more masculine or masculine-coded clothing? Do you feel awkward or uncomfortable as a girl in girls’ clothes?
• Do you wish you could be seen as more masculine, with masculine-coded traits?
• Do you want to wake up tomorrow in a masculine body?
• Are you curious about what it must feel like to be a boy and what boys and men go through?
• Do you wish people would call you “he” or “him”, or refer to you in more masculine ways?
• When you grow old, do you want to grow old in a masculine body?
• Do you have a big stupid grin on your face right now while reading this?